Wednesday, November 30, 2016

MASTURBATION HERO!! Nina Hartley: My favorite pornstar and a masturbation queen!

I'm really not wild about commercial porn. Just not my thing. I prefer masturbating to people I know, women on the street and that internet phenomenon known as "amateur porn." I don't even need to see the sex part of "porn". I just enjoy seeing the pretty ladies (and some guys) who enjoy showing off, especially when they masturbate.

However, I have a porn-exception for Nina Hartley!

Born Marie Louise Hartman, the 57-year-old Hartley is an adult film star, women's advocate, sexy educator, and an avowed and enthusiastic masturbator. I see some guys post in forums that Nina has gotten too old to work in the industry and pose nude, but I think those guys must be wanking to someone else. Nina is a sexy as ever. Besides, intelligence is sexy. Masturbation is sexy. Put it all together and you have Nina Hartley.

In her book Nina Hartley's Guide to Total Sex, Nina devotes an entire chapter to masturbation. The Library Review writes: "With Levine, her husband and collaborator, Hartley translated her 22 years as an adult film star into a series of sex education videos. Now again with Levine's assistance, she puts her expertise into print. Her well-written guide is strong on both safe sex and a permissive approach and includes substantial sections on toys, swinging, three-ways, dominance/submission, and erotic spanking-in addition to the usual topics. In general, she handles the material frankly, accurately, and with sensitivity. Her anatomical descriptions are excellent, as are the tips on sharing masturbation, coping with uncomfortably sized genitalia, and why not to make love like a porn star (porn sex is heavily edited, unsafe, unrealistic, and performed by people accustomed to unusual activities)."

Nina has been featured in various other articles and on webcasts discussing and displaying masturbation techniques and how to introduce a partner to masturbation. She is totally comfortable with the idea of self-pleasure. I guess it figures from a woman who has made a living by inducing others to masturbate but I have never seen such an eloquent spokesperson for the art of sexual enjoyment. This, along with her obvious female charms, makes her such a good masturbation muse for me. Nina is the first in my "Masturbation Hero" series of salutes.

Guys, let's get our cocks out (girls, get ready to massage those clits) and give the beautiful, smart and talented Ms. Hartley a masturbatory salute right now!

Sunday, November 27, 2016

I masturbate over Donna and a MMF fantasy

This masturbation fantasy is based on people I know. I’ve changed names.

Donna is one of my best friends. Early 50’s, about 5’3″, Graying hair to her shoulders and brown eyes (she was a brunette until a couple years ago). I love to masturbate to her and have done so for more than 24 years, ever since I’ve known her.

I’ve always had MFM fantasies. About 16 years ago she had this boyfriend, Harrison, early 30’s, about 5’9″, good looking guy. She would always tell me and my wife Cheryl what a big cock he had. They made such a beautiful couple. Donna had nice, firm breasts, a very sexy ass, cute smile and sexy hips, and I would fantasize about watching them make love.

I was always hoping to do a threesome with them. My fantasy always involved us starting in hetero fashion, me fucking her from behind while she sucks Harrison’s cock, then reverse. Then she sits on his cock reverse cowgirl and begin to fuck.

At that point, I crawl on my belly up to them and begin licking Donna’s clit as she slides up and down on his cock. She moans as she feels my wet tongue. With all the bouncing going on, my tongue can’t help but touch Harrison’s cock. I taste Donna’s juices as my tongue slides up and down his hard dick. I hear him moan, and realize I’m paying more attention to his big, beautiful, engorged manhood than I am to Donna’s clit. I use a wet finger to massage her clit while my tongue runs up and down Harrison’s shaft. I hear her moan more as he thrusts harder and deeper into her. I love licking the hard cock that my dear friend loves to fuck so much, that gives her so much pleasure.

I take his balls into my mouth and gently suck. I hear him moan more as he thrusts deeper into Donna’s vagina. I continue to finger her clit, and sense they are both about to cum. I have my left arm around Donna’s waist, and my right hand now cups Harrison’s balls. My tongue slides across both her clit and his shaft. She begins to moan, then screams, “I’m cumming!”

I center my tongue as best I can as they fuck. She shudders, gasping in orgasm. She drops back on Harrison’s chest as I tongue her more and he thrusts. “Oh, oh, oh!” She shudders again, then giggles and pushes a hand against my head. “Oh, Tim, no more, oh…” and giggles again.

Harrison is still gently thrusting her, and I realize he hasn’t cum. I gently tighten my grip on his balls with my right hand, and begin working more with my mouth on his shaft and balls. He moans and thrusts up and down, and I can tell that Donna is enjoying the extra thrusting. Her sweet juices are running down Harrison’s cock, and I am greedily licking them up. He thrusts harder and moans more.

Suddenly, Donna slides back a little too far and Harrison’s penis pops out of her vagina, basically slapping me in the forehead! I hear a moan and a squeal from Donna. I quickly run my tongue to the tip, and put the beautiful head of this gorgeous member in my mouth. I’m thinking, “This beautiful cock-head was just so deep inside my lovely best friend, and was bringing her so much pleasure. It’s so big, it was probably pushing against the very deepest insides of her love canal. And now, it’s in my mouth!”

The precum is sweet, especially when mixed with Donna’s love juices. I taste some of Harrison’s semen leaking out. I circle the tip of his penis with my tongue and he wiggles and moans.

When I look up at Donna, she is staring down and her mouth is wide open in amazement. But a smile is coming to her lips, and her hand creeps lower to her crotch. I lower my mouth over the cock, taking it in fully. My tongue is working, and Harrison begins to pump up and down, fucking my mouth. I realize I’m deep-throating him.

Suddenly he begins to buck and moan loudly. His cock begins to shudder, and I feel him begin to spurt. It nearly chokes me, but tastes sweet, especially when mixed with Donna’s juices. I swallow his sperm down as fast as I can. He shoots it so hard into the back of my throat. Harrison screams in pleasure. I savor the taste, and love knowing I have brought Donna’s lover to orgasm.

Soon, the motion of his hips slows. A satisfied moan comes from his lips. His cock is still hard, and my mouth still glides gently up and down it, ever so often sucking hard the remaining drops of his cum from the head. I look up at Donna. She still has a look of shock, but with a wry smile and I notice her fingers working around her clit area.

Another minute goes by, and I’m licking and cleaning Harrison’s genitals, still caressing his balls as I do. He begins to soften and I raise my head. Donna grabs me behind the neck and pulls me up to her. Still sitting on Harrison’s chest, she kisses me and licks the semen that is dripping down my chin. Kissing me hard she guides my body up to hers, leans back on Harrison and slides my very hard erection into her wet vagina. “I love you Tim, you’re my best friend,” she whispers in my ear.

“I love you, too,” I say, as Harrison reaches around with both hands, and helps guide my ass as I fuck his woman.

I think of this often when I masturbate. They both moved on and ended up married to other people. Donna is still one of my best friends and I masturbate to her a lot. I know she is a very sexual person, and I wonder if she would get naked with me; as naked as I am now as I masturbate and write this. I want Donna to join me and masturbate with me while we both fantasize over each other and over Harrison’s cock!

Wednesday, November 23, 2016

The Proudbator and his website

I stumbled across "Proudbator'" Tumbler and today. I have to say, I LOVE this guy's attitude and love his masturbation. Totally uninhibited and unembarrassed about his masturbation, he posts a wank almost daily. is a pay/membership site, while you can get the "lite" version by going here on Tumblr: . For some reason the hotlink is not working, so copy and paste into your browser.

His name is Ricardo and he is strictly a solo-masturbation performer. He has a beautiful cock that any other masturbator - straight, gay or bi - can appreciate and get into. His pitch to get you to join the pay site includes this line: "I’m on a mission to normalise masturbation and to make it very casual, chatty, sensual and fun." Ricardo seems to be doing just that AND is having a blast doing it. I have been loooking at his gifs and pictures of him with his beautiful cock for a while now thinking of how good that beautiful piece of meat must feel as he makes masturbatory love to it.

I often wonder how I can make a living masturbating. I love to do it so much and would be happy to do it all day, every day if I could. It sees the Proudbator has discovered the formula. Check him out! You will enjoy it!

MILF Christy Gets Me Thinking About Feet and Masturbation

I was coming down the hall, carrying some papers, when I heard the familiar “thwack, thwack” sound that flip-flops make when slapping against someone’s feet. “I hope that’s Christy,” I thought to myself. Christy, the tall, blonde, mid-30’s MILF that manages this office building. In warm weather, she almost always wears sandals or flip-flips. The beautiful, sexy frame created by the feminine bones of her feet always stir my cock. I masturbate quite often with her image running through my mind.

I got close to where the sound was coming from, another hallway off to the left. As I was about to turn, I almost ran straight into my beautiful masturbation muse.

“Whoa, I’m sorry,” we both said as we laughed after having nearly knocked each other over.
Another thought crossed my mind: I had hit the masturbatory motherlode with Christy! She was going out to play tennis and was wearing a sports bra under a tank-top; very short, tight shorts; and sported very bare flip-flops on her pretty feet. Her toes were tipped with pink polish and curved and gripped her footwear with each step. I assume she would put on her tennis shoes when she got to the courts and I thought what a shame it is to cover up such a lovely vision.

After she passed by, I turned to watch her sexy ass sashay down the hall and out the door. I hurried to my office, shut the door, sat behind my desk, pulled my pants down to my ankles, and masturbated to a delicious, pleasurable orgasm thinking of the beautiful face, legs and feet that had just crossed my path. I had to be careful not to be too loud as I moaned Christy’s name.

As I cleaned up the sweet-smelling masturbatory mess I had made all over my office chair I started wondering: “What is it about feet that makes them sexually attractive?”
I’m not really into feet as sexual objects themselves. I like feet in the context of a complete, beautiful woman. Christy usually wears her blonde hair in a bun on top of her head, a nice cap to her blue eyes and beautiful cheekbones that she accents with her glasses. My gaze will go down to her nice, firm breasts; those long, sexy legs; then down to those gorgeous feet. Those sexy toes cap off the vision for me. When I am masturbating to Christy, I often imagine her from head to toes, reaching the most pleasurable part of my session when my mind reaches her pretty pedicure. It is the total picture that brings me masturbatory pleasure, not just the feet themselves.

However, I realize that many people do consider feet a sexual object in themselves. There are numerous definitions for “foot fetish”. The online Urban Dictionary defines the term as: “The pure admiration or sexual attraction of barefeet. Usually pertaining to men who can become sexually aroused from the sight of any part of women's feet(including, toes, arches and soles. ”Wikipedia calls it “… a pronounced sexual interest in the feet”. A 2013 article in Psychology Today states: “There is very strong evidence that the male brain comes wired with a biological predisposition to attending to feet.” There’s quite a bit of both empirical and anecdotal evidence suggesting we have something innate that draws us to beautiful feet as a sexual object, even if the feet are not themselves part of any sex act.

For me? Pretty feet are just an extension of human beauty. When I think about the women I masturbate to the most, I realize just about all of them have pretty, sexy feet and I include those feet in my masturbation fantasies. My best friend Liz, my tailgate buddies Tina and Sheryl, my blonde friend Kathleen, yacht club pal Jolie, trop rock fan and busty bud Debbie – they all have nice legs and sexy feet that figure prominently when I masturbate over them. When I masturbate to Kate Moss and Eva Longoria (and just about any other celeb muse), I usually use pictures of them with bare feet or in barely-there sandals.

I must add right here that a pretty smile is just about as important for me as pretty feet, maybe more so. It’s all part of the complete package.

Even gay men are said to have a foot fetish preponderance. That’ is something that rarely attracts me when I masturbate to or with my fellow male masturbators. For me, it’s just the beauty of the male genitalia that I find attractive although nice male legs are also a turn-on. Perhaps I am not typical, and research suggests I am not. Many gay porn sites feature men’s feet and comments on posts suggest they are an attractive magnet for gay and bisexual masturbators.

Who am I to really worry about “why”? All I know is that pretty feet on a lovely woman with a nice smile can send me into a masturbation frenzy. As I write this, we are deep into autumn here. It has been weeks since women in my part of the world have been regularly walking around in flip-flops an bare sandals, showing off the beauty of their lower extremities. I still take in Christy’s high-cheekbone smile when I walk in the building every day and watch her walk down the hall, dreaming of cumming over her sexy face ass. However, it’s really not the same without a daily dose of those pretty feet or her sexy legs.

Christy and my other muses keep me longing and looking forward to Spring!

Monday, November 14, 2016

I Have Decided to Bring Back This Blog

I erased the contents of "Masturbation is Beautiful almost seven years ago. I had become too wrapped up in my masturbation habit and needed a break.

However, masturbation is such a large part of who I am, of my sexual identity, that I needed another outlet. I have done several blogs by this name on Tumblr as a way to fill the void. However, they ended up becoming nothing more than photo dumps. Nothing wrong with that ( I LOVE to masturbate to the photos on Tumblr sites!), but I want to display something more intelligent that will provoke thought and acceptance of our masturbation habits. I will throw in some pictures here but this blog will be much more literary than anything else.

What do I like to masturbate to? I LOVE masturbating over my female friends and acquaintances most of all. I have so many sexual fantasies about them, but they are fantasies probably best not realized. By masturbating over my female friends I am enjoying their beauty in the most physical way possible without the encumbrance of romantic relationships and physical contact. When not masturbating to my friends, I enjoy "amateur" sites with normal, everyday women the most. They don't necessarily have to be nude sites for me to enjoy. I really get off often on the contests on and
I also enjoy the clothing catalogues like Boston Proper, Talbots and Victoria's Secret that my wife Cheryl gets in the mail. Art-porn sites also are a favorite of mine. I love the beauty of the photography as well as the sexuality of the models.

I'm not embarrassed or ashamed to admit I LOVE masturbating with other men, and often masturbate to them. I don't consider myself gay, although I do identify as bi-sexual or pan-sexual. I'm not interested in the gay lifestyle beyond sexual activity. Nothing wrong with the gay lifestyle, if that's what you are into. It is just not me. When I have sexual relations with a man, I look at it in the context of helping another masturbator achieve satisfaction. I really enjoy the feel of another masturbator's cock in my hands, the feeling of his tight and full testicles as I pleasure him.
I enjoy the feel of a penis on my tongue as I run my lips up and down its length, the feel of tender testicles in my mouth, and even the feel and taste of a penis and its pre-cum and semen as I take it in my mouth.
I view my cock-sucking as an extension of masturbating: I'm masturbating someone with my lips and my tongue, and it is a beautiful thing to share. I also enjoy being in another masturbator's mouth, and also view it as an extension of mutual masturbation. Pressing my body against another male masturbator and rubbing cocks is another favorite for me.

My name, as given is this blog, is "In Love With Kate Moss." I have such a wonderful masturbation crush on her, and she, along with Eva Longoria,
are my favorite masturbation muses. You can also find my posts under this name at in their contributors section. I really don't masturbate to "commercial porn" that much, although I adore Nina Hartley and Christy Canyon. I really enjoy masturbating to them, especially as they have gotten older.

So sit back and relax, get out your cock or slide your hand down to your clitoris as we explore this wonderful aspect of sexuality!